Adult Autism: The Journey of Rafael Mantesso and His Dog Jimmy Chu

A Timely and Welcoming Diagnosis

During this period of intense change, Rafael also discovered he was autistic at age 30. His childhood was "traumatic," marked by bullying at school and the feeling of being an "oddball." However, the support of loving parents in rural Minas Gerais minimized the impacts. "My parents understood that my life outside the home was very difficult and made my life at home very good," he recalls. At that time, autism was not well understood. The search for an adult diagnosis was challenging, as many professionals were not prepared. Confirmation came after multiple tests with psychiatrist Marie from New Zealand.

For Rafael, the diagnosis didn't change his life but brought profound peace and understanding of past struggles. He emphasizes that autism is a spectrum, not a stereotype: "It's not that if you know one, you know them all."

Celebrating Neurodiversity and Claiming Space

Rafael advocates for the celebration of neurodiversity, noting that many great minds throughout history — scientists, artists — were often on the spectrum. He cites activist Greta Thunberg as an example of how hyperfocus can be a "superpower." Rafael believes society is not yet prepared to deal with neurodiversity, but that doesn't stop him from taking action. He demands work environments that respect his individuality: "I don't want to work in a place that thinks my tattoo is a problem," he illustrates. The message is clear: claim your space and understand your own needs.

Initiatives like the "autism hour" in supermarkets show a path toward adaptation and inclusion, but the primary change must come from self-acceptance and the pursuit of self-knowledge. He mentions the Romeo Mion Law as an important advancement but reinforces the importance of individual advocacy and activism.

The Physiological Connection Between Rafael and Jimmy

Rafael's relationship with Jimmy Chu is one of profound gratitude and love. "My life exists before and after Jimmy," he states. Jimmy was the first being by whom Rafael felt completely loved and accepted. Recently, while researching for a second book, Rafael discovered an article in Nature magazine that revealed a fascinating coincidence: the brains of Bull Terriers process a chemical substance similarly to the brains of autistic children. This "scientific coincidence" reinforces the unique connection between him and Jimmy, almost as if the dog were an "autistanimal," an entity connecting him to the world.

The inspiring conversation with Rafael Mantesso reminds us of the importance of valuing every uniqueness and fighting for a world where neurodiversity is seen as a strength, not an impediment. May his journey inspire us to seek self-knowledge and build truly welcoming environments for everyone.