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Vagina and Penis: Protect Your Children with Correct Names
Learn why using the correct terminology for private parts is vital for children's safety and education.
Discover the importance of using the correct names for children's private parts, such as 'vagina' and 'penis.' Expert Andreza Thans explains how this practice aids in protection and establishing healthy boundaries. Avoid nicknames that can cause confusion and make it harder to identify risky situations.
In the world of Donas da Voz, where female empowerment meets the exchange of experiences and knowledge, we bring a crucial topic for child protection and education: the importance of correctly verbalizing the names of children's private parts.
Expert Andreza Thans emphasizes the need for parents to use the terms 'vagina' and 'penis' from an early age, avoiding nicknames or euphemisms like “moranguinho” (little strawberry) or “pepeca” (pussycat/kitty).
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Clarity Saves: Why the Correct Name is Essential
Confusion caused by nicknames can have serious consequences. Andreza shares a striking example of a child who, using an affectionate nickname for their private part, told their teacher: “Auntie, my daddy likes to lick my little strawberry.” This phrase, innocent in the child's intention, led to misunderstandings and highlighted the lack of clarity in communication. The teacher didn't grasp the seriousness of the situation because the terms weren't clear.
Using the correct names allows the child to understand their own body and develop the ability to report inappropriate touches precisely, should they occur. It is a fundamental tool in child abuse prevention.
Building Healthy Boundaries and Bodily Autonomy
Teaching the names 'vagina' and 'penis' is the first step for children to understand that no one can touch these areas without permission. It is essential to educate them about what is acceptable and what is not. Many young children may interpret touches in these regions as “tickles,” which can silence or confuse them in risky situations.
Parents (mom and dad) have an active role in teaching that if someone wants to touch their vagina, penis, or bottom, “they cannot.” This empowers the child to establish and defend their own bodily boundaries.
Early Education and Hygiene
Beyond protection, education about private parts includes hygiene. It is fundamental that parents teach their children to care for and wash their vagina and penis from a tender age. The child's brain is a sponge, absorbing information very quickly. Taking advantage of this phase to build a solid foundation of knowledge and autonomy is a gift for their children's future.
By talking openly and using the correct terminology, we are offering our children the necessary tools to grow up safe, aware, and in control of their own bodies. It is an act of love and care that echoes the purpose of Donas da Voz: to empower and transform lives.
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